It's been a few months but the wait is over, one of your real estate Apps just sent you an alert matching your ideal home, and there will be an Open House on Saturday afternoon.
You've been preparing for this event for two years so you know what to do. Get an updated pre-approval letter, check your credit score again, check the weather, and plan a couple of drive-bys to check out the place from the street.
On Saturday after you picked out a "smart-casual" look, you pull up 15 minutes after 1:00 and see cars and people. Lots of people.
I have heard a similar story for years, and not just from first-time buyers, but move-up and retiring buyers. The stress can ruin any weekend plans.
So, where do you go from here?
Having a fresh perspective is important for getting different results. The time and effort you've spent getting ready for the biggest financial decision you'll make should not come down to your smart-casual outfit at the Open House.